About Last Night…
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IMDB rating: 5.80 Plot: Danny and Bernie are two single men living their lives on the wild side. But when Danny meets Debbie at a bar and the two start a relationship with a one night stand, Danny’s life takes a different turn. How does this passionate night become a full affair and what effect will this relationship have on both people and their friendship with their best mates ? |
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Actors: Lowe Rob,Belushi James,DiCenzo George,Alldredge Michael,Thomas Robin,Neches Robert,Greco Joe,Comedy,Drama,Romance,
I slept with my friend..who has a girlfriend..?
i have this friend..well, he’s one of my best friends.
and last night, his girlfriend was staying out for the night at her friends, so he said i could go stop at his to keep him company..watch some films etc.
so, i went..and we ended up having sex, it was my first time.. . .and now ..I feel so wrong.
on the way home this morning he asked if i wanted to meet him on monday to just go for a walk around or something, as its his day off work..and i said no, i don’t think i can see you again..and he basically said i was being selfish, by saying i dont want to speak to him again.
but its only because i feel so bad!, so.anyway.he walked me to the bus stop, and i’ve just got home..he texted me saying about how nice the night was and that he was tired etc..
and i didn’t text back.. so then he texted again saying "blanked xx"
i don’t know what to do 
he’s 28 and has a little boy, i’m 21..
he is going through a break up with his girlfriend, but that’s no justification for what we did.
i don’t want to text him back, because i don’t know where this is going..and i don’t know what to say too him.
Any advice? yes..no one needs to tell me i did a bad slutty thing, i know. and i deservedly feel like shit for it.
And should i text him back?
your totally fine because they are breaking up enjoy
Cameron | Feb 06, 2010
yes text him back…all i can say is things happen…dont let it ruin your friendship with him =]
Casey | Feb 06, 2010
it was wrong what you done, but mistakes happen. if you really like this guy and if he breaks up with his girlfriend (as long as he doesn’t do it just for you) then give it a while and then see where it takes you.
you should reply to him and tell him exactly how you feel, even if he doesn’t understand your feelings at least you tried to explain and it should make you feel a little better.
help me
xx | Feb 06, 2010
well if your gonna text him back tell him exactly how you feel, and if you feel as though you and him maybe shouldn’t see each other anymore than you should tell him so.
mxtra | Feb 06, 2010
you could always text him and say you really regret what happened and at the moment you are too embarrassed to see him. just ask him to give you a bit of space, maybe you’ll change your mind and want to be friends with him again. i don’t think personally you should just cut him out of your life though. is it really worth losing a friendship over? if you decide to be mates again you’ll have to make it clear that you won’t be having sex again.
twisted | Feb 06, 2010
If everything was going fine with his girlfriend prior to your adventure with him, then you can possibly be a home wrecker.
But if you are sure they were breaking up, then give it time. If it is meant to be they will break up with no excuses, make sure it is a clean break between them before going any further.
pink-skyz | Feb 06, 2010
I think you’re being too hard on yourself. Maybe sleeping with you was what he needed to realize that he really wants to be with you. And if that’s the case, then even if what you did wasn’t the nicest thing to do, it is ultimately for the best. This could be the beginning of a great relationship, and it is completely different from a situation where you’re the piece on the side.
But he needs to take action: either he needs to leave his girlfriend right away, or he needs to stop seeing you altogether. Because if he doesn’t, this is going to turn into a situation where you are the piece on the side.
And if he does end up leaving his girlfriend for you, don’t let your guilt ruin what could otherwise be a wonderful relationship with your best friend.
Caio | Feb 06, 2010
Best answer if you really regret it,do not cheat on bf,as if he found out you will hurt him and maybe lose him.
So forget it happened and say no to others.
cornish | Feb 06, 2010
For a best friend he sounds like an a** hole… Oh well at lest you got your cherry broken.
Been there done that and move on…. give it a few days and see what happens. Its not the end of the world. PS. hope you "covered up" if not check out a morning after Pill…. If you got pregnant
(or something) THAT could be a serious problem.
Good luck and try to keep an emotional distance about the whole thing. Is it just a one off situation or….. !
Fishtalk | Feb 06, 2010